What are sex toys for men?
Sex toys for men are made for the penis, testicles, perineum and prostate. Strokers wrap the shaft in a textured sleeve, some with a motor. Cock rings sit at the base, pumps work by vacuum, sleeves are worn over the penis and prostate massagers go inside. Some also run from a phone app. Use them alone or with a partner of any gender.
Where to start
A manual stroker or a simple cock ring is the easiest first buy: no charging and no app to learn. A single-use Tenga Egg lets you test one texture before you commit to a reusable sleeve. For vibration, the VeDO Overdrive ring keeps every mode on a single button. Once you know what you like, step up to an automatic stroker for hands-free motion, a prostate massager or an app toy a partner can run. Or browse our beginner sex toys.
Types of sex toys for men
Pocket pussies and strokers
A stroker is a soft sleeve you move by hand; a pocket pussy has its opening molded into a body shape. The Tenga Spinner Tetra hides a coiled core that turns the sleeve around you as you stroke. The Blush M for Men Soft & Wet is self-lubricating: a splash of water makes it slick, for up to 12 uses. The manual Arcwave Pow uses an air-release valve to control suction. More pocket pussies and male strokers.
Automatic strokers and blowjob machines
The Milker Intense 13x combines Tornado suction you can set to 3 intensities with vibration in 3 speeds and 7 patterns. On the Jock 9x, suction (3 modes) and vibration (3 levels) work alone or at once. The Zolo Automatic Blowjob holds itself in place on an adjustable suction-cup base, with two suction modes plus vibration. Browse automatic strokers and blowjob machines.
Cock rings and vibrating rings
A cock ring sits snug around the base of the shaft. The VeDO Overdrive is silicone, with a curved tip, a travel lock and a 45-minute run time. On the Trinity 10x with taint stim, a pad sends vibration into the perineum; its remote has 3 speeds and 7 patterns. Take it off after about 20 to 30 minutes, or right away if you feel pain, numbness or coldness. See every cock ring.
Prostate massagers
A prostate massager reaches the prostate (the P-spot) from inside; like any anal toy, it needs a handle, arm or base that stays outside. On the Playboy Come Hither, the angled tip makes a come-hither motion and the base vibrates; its remote reaches 25 feet, and its ring handle and curved arm sit outside you. The Gender X True Blue vibrates and thrusts 0.25 inch, steered by a T-shaped handle. More prostate massagers.
Penis pumps
A penis pump seals a cylinder over the penis and pulls a vacuum, by hand or by motor. On the Pump Worx Beginner's Power Pump, you squeeze a bulb and press a button to release. The Rock Solid Boost It has a manual lever and a pressure gauge, and the Sucking Penis Pump with Stroker Attachment is automatic, with 5 suction modes. We make no size claims for any pump. Shop penis pumps.
Penis sleeves and extensions
Sleeves are worn over the penis: hollow extensions or vibrating sheaths. The Vixen Holster is hollow silicone: 5.87 by 2.12 inches on the outside, a 4.5 by 1.37 inch cavity within, secured by a testicle strap. The Gender X Rocketeer is a silicone sheath held by three rings, with 9 vibration speeds. Browse penis sleeves and extenders.
App-controlled toys for men
An app toy puts its controls on a phone, and either of you can hold it. The Lovense Max 2 contracts through 360 degrees and has an internal vibrator, and a partner can drive it long-distance. The Lovense Edge 2 prostate massager's arm bends to fit its internal head and perineum pad to your body, and the motor on the Lovense Diamo ring targets the perineum. More Lovense.
Toys to share with a partner
The Super Silicone Cock Ring with Remote pairs separate shaft and ball rings with a bullet placed for a partner's clitoris; the included remote has 4 speeds. The Trinity Cobra has two flexible prongs that flick a partner; flip it over and they buzz you. The We-Vibe Verge works the wearer's perineum, and its app lets either of you take control from anywhere. Shop couples sex toys.
How to choose sex toys for men
- What you want. Stroking, squeezing, vibration or prostate play?
- Manual or motor. A manual sleeve needs no charging; a motor adds suction, vibration or thrusting.
- Sleeve material and texture. TPE sleeves (Soft & Wet, Jock 9x) are porous; silicone (Arcwave Pow, Holster) is non-porous.
- Size and fit. Check each product's numbers, like the Milker Intense's insertion of up to 6 inches or the Diamo's 1.75-inch inside diameter.
- Cleaning. Removable sleeves (Milker Intense) and twist-open bodies (Arcwave Ion 2) are easier to wash.
- Power. Many motorized toys here charge by USB; the Rock Solid Auto pump takes two batteries.
- Discretion. A stroker in its own can (Spinner Tetra), a pocket-sized Tenga Egg or a travel lock (Overdrive).
How to use a stroker
- Wash it before its first use, and charge it if needed.
- Warm a sleeve in water only if its listing says to.
- Coat the tunnel and yourself with water-based lube.
- Ease in slowly; a valve or squeeze point changes the grip.
- Motorized? Begin on the lowest setting. Stop if anything chafes, hurts or goes numb.
- Afterward, wash it, let it dry fully and cap it if it came with a lid.
Cleaning and care
- Sleeves. Wash inside and out with soapy warm water or toy cleaner, then dry every part.
- Porous TPE. Store each sleeve by itself; a condom keeps a shared sleeve cleaner.
- Rings and strapped sleeves. Take it off after about 20 to 30 minutes, or right away if you feel pain, numbness or coldness.
- Motors, only as rated. The Rocketeer is fully submersible and the Diamo is IPX7; the water-resistant Max 2 takes a rinse, never a soak. Unrated? Keep electronics out of water.
- Pumps. Start low, and check with a doctor before pumping if you have a circulation, clotting or nerve condition.
- Prostate toys. Never take one from anus to vagina without washing it or swapping the condom.
Sex toys for men FAQ
What's the best sex toy for men to start with?
A manual stroker or a simple cock ring. The Tenga Spinner Tetra is reusable and dries on its stand, or try one texture in a single-use Tenga Egg. For a ring, choose a snug fit and one button.
What is a pocket pussy?
It's a stroker with a body-shaped opening: some look like a vagina, others a mouth or a backside. Inside is a stretchy, textured sleeve, often in a firm shell. Many are porous TPE, so wash and dry it every time.
Are cock rings safe?
They can be, worn as directed. Pick a snug fit that doesn't pinch, and take it off after about 20 to 30 minutes, or right away if you feel pain, numbness or coldness. With a circulation or nerve condition, get your doctor's okay first.
What does a prostate massager do?
It presses on the prostate from inside, and some, like the Lovense Edge 2, add a pad for the perineum. It's a toy for pleasure, not a medical device or a treatment. Take it slowly with lots of lube, don't force anything, and stop if you feel sharp pain.
How do you clean a male masturbator?
Right after use, wash the sleeve in warm water, using mild soap or toy cleaner. Take the sleeve out if it's made to come out, keep motors dry unless they carry a water rating, and let every piece air-dry.
What lube works with strokers?
Water-based lube. It works with every sleeve material, and several TPE sleeves here, like the Milker Intense 13x, take water-based lube only. Don't put silicone lube on a silicone sleeve or oil-based lube on TPE, and reapply when the stroke drags.
Can couples use sex toys for men together?
Yes. A couples ring reaches both bodies, a partner can hold the remote, and the Lovense Max 2 can be run long-distance through its app. Settle limits and a safe word first: the wearer sets them, whoever holds the controls honors them, and either of you may stop at once.
Do penis pumps change your size?
We don't claim any size change for any pump. Follow each pump's instructions, start at low pressure and stop at pain or numbness. Look for a pressure gauge, like the Rock Solid Boost It's, and a fast release, like the button valve on the Pump Worx.
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