Squirting is a gush of clear, watery fluid released through the urethra during intense arousal, often set off by firm, steady pressure on the front wall of the vagina while the clit gets attention. Many women can learn to do it, but not all do. To try: empty your bladder, get very turned on, stroke the front wall with a firm come-hither motion, and when you feel like you need to pee, bear down and let go instead of clenching.
Is squirt pee? It's mostly fluid from the bladder, watered down, usually clear and nearly odorless, with a little fluid from the Skene's glands mixed in. That is not the same as peeing. It's a normal, harmless sexual response, and nothing to be embarrassed about.
This guide covers the real science, the anatomy in plain words, the setup, a solo step-by-step, a detailed partner guide for anyone who wants to make her squirt, six positions, troubleshooting and the toys that help. Towels down. Let's get to it.
What’s in this guide
- What is squirting?
- Is squirt pee? The honest science
- Squirting vs female ejaculation
- Can everyone squirt?
- Anatomy you need to know
- Before you start: the setup
- How to squirt on your own, step by step
- How to make her squirt: the partner guide
- How to squirt during sex: 6 positions
- Toys for squirting: what each type does
- Why can't I squirt? Troubleshooting
- Safety and cleanup
- The best toys for squirting
- Squirting FAQ
- The bottom line on squirting
What is squirting?
Squirting, in one line: a release of watery fluid from the urethra during strong arousal and stimulation, from a wet patch on the sheets to a full gush. It can happen with an orgasm, before one, or without one at all.
The common thread is a building pressure deep behind the pubic bone, a feeling a lot like needing to pee, and then a release that many women describe as a wave of relief and pleasure.
What squirting is not:
- It's not getting wet. Arousal wetness is the slippery lubrication from the vaginal walls. Squirt is a thinner fluid released through the urethra, the small opening just above the vaginal opening.
- It's not proof of a better orgasm. Some women love it, some feel neutral, some find it distracting. Your orgasm counts either way.
- It's not what porn shows. Real squirting can be a trickle, a few spurts or a soaked towel, and it varies from one session to the next.
How do you know you squirted? Texture is the tell. Arousal fluid is slick and slippery. Squirt is thin and watery, and it usually arrives in a spurt or a stream right after that "I have to pee" feeling peaks and you let go.
Is squirt pee? The honest science
Short answer: it comes mostly from the bladder, but it is not the same thing as peeing. Here's the research in plain English.
The ultrasound study. Salama and colleagues, in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2015, scanned 7 women who squirt. The bladder filled up before squirting and was empty afterward. The researchers concluded that squirting fluid is mainly urine released involuntarily, and they found a small amount of fluid from the Skene's glands (using a marker called prostate-specific antigen) in 5 of the 7.
The blue dye study. Inoue and colleagues, in the International Journal of Urology in 2022, placed blue dye in the bladder of 5 women. The squirt came out blue in all 5, and the Skene's gland marker showed up in 4.
The review. Pastor, in a 2013 review in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, set out that female ejaculation (a small amount of thick, whitish fluid from the Skene's glands) and squirting (a larger gush of diluted, urine-like fluid) are two different things.
What that means for you: the fluid passes through the bladder, it's usually clear and nearly odorless, and it often carries a little Skene's gland fluid with it. It happens with arousal and stimulation, not because you decided to go, which is why it isn't the same as peeing, even though the build-up can feel a lot like needing to. The two lab studies were small (5 and 7 women), so researchers still debate the details, but both point to the bladder as the main source.
Worried you're "just peeing"? Empty your bladder before you start. What builds up and releases during play is squirt, and it's supposed to happen.
| Squirting | Female ejaculation | Peeing | |
|---|---|---|---|
| What it is | A gush released during strong arousal | A small release of gland fluid | Emptying your bladder |
| Amount | Larger: a wet patch to a soaked towel | Small | Whatever is in your bladder |
| Look | Usually clear, watery, nearly odorless | Thick and whitish | Yellow to clear, smells like urine |
| Where it comes from | Mostly the bladder, plus a little Skene's gland fluid | The Skene's glands | The bladder |
| When it happens | During intense stimulation, often with front-wall pressure | Around arousal or orgasm | When you choose to go |
Squirting vs female ejaculation
These two get mixed up constantly.
Female ejaculation is a small amount of thick, whitish fluid from the Skene's glands, the little glands on either side of the urethra. It can be small enough to go unnoticed. In Pastor's 2013 review, studies of women reporting ejaculation range from 10% to 54%, a wide spread, so no single number tells the whole story.
Squirting is the big one: a larger gush of thin, watery fluid, mostly from the bladder. It's the one that soaks the sheets.
They can happen together. Both lab studies above found Skene's gland fluid mixed into the squirt of most women tested. A small, creamy release without a gush is more likely ejaculation. A flood is squirting.
Can everyone squirt?
No, and that's fine. In a 2024 study in the Journal of Sex Research, Hensel and colleagues surveyed more than 3,000 US women: about 40% said they had squirted at least once, and about 60% of those found it pleasurable.
Those numbers say three useful things:
- It's common. About 4 in 10 women in that survey had done it at least once.
- It's not universal. Most women in that survey hadn't, and some never will.
- Not everyone likes it. Plenty of women who squirted didn't find it pleasurable. You get to decide whether it's for you.
Squirting is not a skill test or a sign of a "better" body. Some women squirt the first time someone presses the right spot, some take many sessions to learn it, and some try everything here and never do. Their orgasms are no less real. Treat it as one more fun thing to explore, not a box to tick.
Anatomy you need to know
Knowing what you're touching makes the technique make sense.
- The G-spot area. It sits along the vagina's front wall, on the side facing your belly button, roughly 1 to 3 inches in. With arousal it tends to feel spongy and a little ridged next to the smoother tissue around it. It's an area, not a button, and its exact spot varies.
- The urethral sponge. A cushion of spongy tissue wrapped around the urethra, sitting right behind that front wall. It swells with arousal. Pressing the G-spot area presses through the vaginal wall into this sponge and the urethra, which is why G-spot pressure so often feels like needing to pee.
- The Skene's glands. Small glands on either side of the lower urethra, near its opening. They make the fluid of female ejaculation.
- The whole clit. The part you see is only the tip. Inside, two legs run back along the pubic bone and two bulbs sit on either side of the vaginal opening, hugging the urethra between them. Clit on the outside plus front wall on the inside works the same network from two directions, which is why combining them is the core of almost every squirting technique.
- The bladder. It sits beyond the front wall, a little higher up, behind your pubic bone, and it's where most squirt comes from.
Put together: firm front-wall pressure plus clit stimulation, while you're deeply aroused, is the recipe. For toys built for that wall, see our guide to the best G-spot vibrators.
Before you start: the setup
The biggest thing that stops people is fear of making a mess or peeing. Remove those worries and your body relaxes enough to let go.
- Empty your bladder first. Pee right before you start, so you're not holding a full bladder and can let go without worrying. There's no evidence that drinking extra water changes whether or how much you squirt, so just drink normally.
- Protect the bed. Two or three folded towels or a waterproof layer under your hips. Or try the bathtub or the shower floor.
- Make time. A long, unhurried window with nowhere to be. Rushing is the enemy.
- Trim and file your nails. Fingers are going inside and pressing firmly.
- Get your lube. Water-based lube plays nicely with condoms and with toys of any material. JO H2O is water-based, safe with silicone and every other toy material, and non-staining, from $12.95. More in our lube collection.
- Get turned on first. The G-spot area swells and gets far more responsive when you're aroused. Pressed cold, it mostly just feels like pressure.
- Relax your mind. Phone away, door locked. There's no goal tonight except feeling good.
The "I have to pee" moment, and why you bear down
This is the single most important thing in this guide. As the pressure builds, you'll probably feel like you need to pee. Every instinct says clench and stop. That clench is exactly what holds the squirt in.
Do the opposite: bear down like you're pushing out, the way you would to start a pee stream, while stimulation continues. Keep breathing and let the feeling grow. The muscles you use to stop peeing are the ones you want to relax and push with, not squeeze.
How to squirt on your own, step by step
Solo is the easiest way in. Nobody's watching, you control the pressure, and you can stop whenever you like.
- Warm up for real. Get properly turned on with whatever reliably works: touch, fantasy, your favorite vibe. You want to be wet, swollen and craving more before anything goes inside.
- Start on your clit. Rub, circle or buzz your clit until you're close, or until you've come once. Many women find the front wall is far more responsive after a first orgasm.
- Lube up and go in. On your back, knees bent, feet flat. Slide one or two lubed fingers in, palm up, toward your belly button.
- Find the spot. Curl your fingertips against the front wall, roughly 1 to 3 inches in, and feel for the ridged, spongy area. If pressing it feels a bit like needing to pee, you're in the right place.
- Come-hither. Curl your fingers in a "come here" stroke, dragging firmly across that spot and back. Firm and steady, not fast and light.
- Add outside pressure. Put your other hand flat on your lower belly, just above the pubic bone, and press down gently. You're sandwiching the G-spot area between fingers and palm.
- Keep your clit in the game. Thumb, other hand or a wand. Fingers tiring? A curved toy like the ROMP Hype or a steel wand like the Njoy Pure Wand holds the pressure without the wrist cramp.
- Build, then hold. Speed up gradually. When it gets intense, change nothing. Same pressure, same pace: consistency tips you over.
- Bear down and let go. At the "I have to pee" rush, push out gently and keep going. Some women pull their fingers or toy out right then, which can let the fluid release more freely. Try both.
- If nothing happens, that's normal. Take a break and try another round, or call it a lovely night. It can take several sessions before the first squirt, and some women never do.
Solo tip: squatting or kneeling with your knees wide makes the come-hither angle easier on your wrist than lying flat.
How to make her squirt: the partner guide
Here's exactly how, step by step. It's for anyone whose partner has a vagina, whatever your gender or hers. The technique is the same for straight, lesbian and queer couples, and for partners with a vulva who aren't a "her" at all.
Talk first
Before anyone's naked, ask if she wants to try, and make sure the answer is an enthusiastic yes, not a shrug to please you. Tell her there's no pressure, it might not happen tonight, and you're in it for the fun.
Agree on a stop word or signal (a word like "red" or two taps on your arm) that means you stop immediately. Ask what she already knows: does she like pressure inside, does she have a favorite toy, has she ever felt close? If she's up for it, watching her touch herself is the best lesson you'll ever get. Our guide to mutual masturbation shows you how to bring it up.
Step by step
- Set the scene. Towels or a waterproof layer down, lube within reach, phones away. She's peed in the last few minutes. Your nails are short and smooth, your hands clean and warm. Gloves are fine too, with plenty of lube.
- Take your time with foreplay. Kiss, tease, then use your mouth or hands on her clit until she's wet, swollen and pulling you closer. Longer than you think. The more aroused she is, the more her G-spot area responds.
- Offer her a first orgasm. One clitoral orgasm from your mouth or a toy often makes the front wall much more receptive. Ask what she wants.
- Position her well. On her back, pillow under her hips, knees bent and open. You kneel between her legs or sit beside her hip, wherever your wrist can stay straight. Rest your forearm on the bed or along her thigh so your arm isn't hanging in the air.
- Go in palm up. Lube your fingers. Slide in one finger, then two (index and middle), palm toward the ceiling. Slowly. Let her body pull you in. Keep your fingers together and touch the wall with the soft pads of your fingers, never your nails.
- Find the spot together. Curl your fingertips toward her belly button about 1 to 3 inches inside and feel for the ridged, spongy area. If the wall feels smooth, slide a little shallower or deeper until the texture changes. Ask: "Here? Higher? Deeper?" Her answer beats any diagram.
- Start the come-hither. Stroke firmly across that area in a "come here" motion, steady and moderate. Bend at the big knuckles where your fingers meet your hand, and move from your whole hand and forearm, not just your fingertips, or you'll tire fast. Keep the stroke short: you're working one area, not traveling up and down the wall. Hand tiring? Swap in a curved steel wand like the Njoy Pure Wand and keep the same come-hither stroke.
- Pressure first, then speed. Squirting tends to respond to firm pressure more than to speed. Increase the pressure until she says it's perfect, then build the pace slowly. You'll often feel the area swell and firm up under your fingertips as she gets closer.
- Try a variation, then commit. If the come-hither stops building, try something else on the same spot: press and hold, then release, in a slow pulse; small circles; or a side-to-side wiggle. Ask which one she likes best, then stick with it.
- Press down with your other hand. Lay your free palm flat on her lower belly, just above the pubic bone, and press gently toward your fingers inside. That sandwich is often what makes it happen. Ask how firm she wants it.
- Work her clit at the same time. Use your mouth, rest your thumb on her clit as your fingers keep working inside, or bring in a wand. The Magic Wand Rechargeable has 4 intensity levels and a head over 2 inches across you can press right where she wants it. She can hold it while you focus inside.
- Keep the rhythm. As she gets close, don't speed up wildly, change position or stop. Check in with a look or a quick "good?" without breaking rhythm.
- Coach the release. When she says she feels like she needs to pee, tell her it's fine to push out and let go. Keep going.
- Pull out as she lets go. Some women squirt most freely if you slide your fingers out with one last firm stroke across the front wall as the release starts. Others want you to keep going and ride it out. Ask beforehand, or follow her lead.
- Stay with her. Slow down gently, keep a hand on her, and let her decide whether she wants another round or is done for the night.
Reading her: what "close" looks like
Watch her, not just your hand.
- Her breathing deepens or catches. Your cue to change nothing.
- Her hips push into your hand. She wants more of exactly this.
- Her thighs tense or shake. Brace your forearm so your stroke doesn't wobble.
- She grabs your wrist. It can mean "don't stop" or "stop". Ask "keep going?" and do what she says.
When she says "I think I have to pee"
This is the moment. Don't panic and don't stop. Try: "You're fine, let it go, I've got you." If she tenses, keep your rhythm, remind her to breathe and push out gently. If she wants to stop, stop. Never push her through it.
If the feeling fades without a release, that's normal. Go back to her clit, let the arousal climb again, and come back to the front wall when she's ready.
Using a toy on her
Same rules as fingers: lots of lube, curve toward her belly button.
- Steel wands. Slide the curve in slowly, rest it against the front wall and rock it in the same short come-hither motion. The Le Wand Arch has a flattened tip for precise, targeted pressure when she wants it pinpointed.
- Toys that move on their own. Your job is angle, not effort: hold it still on the spot. With the Osci 3, let the oscillating arm sit against the spot instead of pushing it in.
- Rabbits. The 12x Come-Hither Rocker has a handle that's easy to pass to a partner, so she can start and hand it over.
- Swap at a slow moment. Hand off during a lull, never right as she's getting close.
Mistakes to avoid
- Making it the goal. If she feels like she's failing a test, her body clamps down. The goal is her pleasure.
- Jackhammering. Fast, furious in-and-out fingering is a porn move, and it mostly hurts. Firm, steady pressure on one spot works.
- Chasing depth. The spot is only 1 to 3 inches in, so going deeper usually means missing it.
- Changing everything at once. Speed, pressure or angle: change one at a time, and if it was working, leave it alone.
- Reacting badly. If she squirts, react with delight. Your first reaction is what she'll remember.
- Switching holes. Never move a finger or toy from her ass to her vagina without washing it or changing the condom.
Aftercare
Pull the wet towel, put a dry one down, hand her water and cuddle. Tell her how hot it was. A first squirt can leave someone feeling exposed, and that's when your warmth matters most. If it didn't happen, tell her how much you loved trying, and mean it.
How to squirt during sex: 6 positions
A straight cock or dildo tends to slide past the front wall instead of pressing it, which is why fingers and toys often work better. The fix is angle: aim penetration up toward her belly button, and add a hand or toy on her clit. These work with a cock, a strap-on or a dildo, or let a thrusting dildo do the moving.
1. On top, leaning back
She straddles her partner, then leans back on her hands or her partner's thighs. Leaning back tilts penetration straight into the front wall, she controls the depth and grind, and her clit is wide open for her fingers or a wand. Rock, don't bounce.
2. Doggy style
On hands and knees, the front wall faces the mattress, so a cock or dildo angled slightly down drags right across it. Chest down, back arched deepens the angle. Shallow, firm strokes beat deep pounding, and either of you can reach underneath for her clit.
3. Legs-up missionary with a pillow
She lies back with a firm pillow under her hips and her legs on her partner's shoulders or pulled to her chest. Raised hips point penetration into the front wall. Her partner can press gently on her lower belly, just above the pubic bone, for the sandwich effect.
4. Edge of the bed
Her hips at the edge of the bed, her partner standing or kneeling on the floor. The height difference makes the upward angle easy, and it's the best spot for fingering her because your arm is free to work.
5. Spooning with a toy
Both on your sides, her partner behind. Spooning doesn't reach the front wall much on its own, so add a wand on her clit while her partner moves slowly. The Magic Wand Mini is compact, and its soft silicone head sits on a bendy neck, so it fits between bodies. $96.95.
6. Riding a suction-cup toy
Solo, or as a show for a partner. Stick a curved toy to a smooth, flat surface, lower yourself onto it and lean back until the curve presses your front wall. The Temptasia Bellatrix pairs a curved silicone shaft with a strong suction-cup base, $23.95. Your hands stay free for your clit.
During-sex tip: make her squirt with your fingers first, then move on to sex. It takes the pressure off penetration.
Toys for squirting: what each type does
You can squirt with nothing but fingers. Toys help for two reasons: they deliver firm, steady pressure exactly where you aim them, and they never get a tired wrist.
- Steel and glass G-spot wands. Firm materials, so the pressure from your hand lands on the front wall. The Le Wand Stainless Steel Arch is solid steel, hard and weighty. The Prisms VibraGlass 10x Bleu ($94.95) adds vibration, with a firm borosilicate glass end and a soft silicone end.
- Come-hither and oscillating vibrators. These copy the finger motion: the Lovense Osci 3 taps, and the 12x Come-Hither Rocker beckons.
- Wands for the clit. A powerful wand on the clit while fingers or a toy work inside is the classic combo. See our wand vibrator collection.
- Combos. One toy, both zones. Browse our rabbit vibrators, or try an air-pulse rabbit like the ROMP Reverb.
- Air pulse inside. The Womanizer OG pulses Pleasure Air against the G-spot, with 12 air levels and separate vibration levels. $129.95.
- Inflatable toys. For pressure and fullness, the Extreme-G inflates once it's inside.
| Toy type | How it helps | Best for |
|---|---|---|
| Steel or glass G-spot wand | Firm pressure you control by hand | Learning the spot, partners holding the toy |
| Oscillating or come-hither vibrator | Copies the finger motion without wrist fatigue | Solo play and long sessions |
| Wand vibrator | Strong vibration on the clit while something works inside | Combining clit and front wall in any position |
| Rabbit or dual toy | Inside and clit at once | One-handed blended play |
| Inflatable G-spot vibrator | Pressure that grows inside | Anyone who loves fullness |
| Water-based lube | Glide that works with every toy material | Everyone, every time |
Lube note: silicone lube can damage silicone toys, so use water-based with them. The all-steel Le Wand Arch works with any lubricant.
Why can't I squirt? Troubleshooting
If you've tried and nothing's happened, you're not broken. Here's what usually stalls it.
| What's happening | Why it stalls | Try this |
|---|---|---|
| It feels like peeing, so you stop | Clenching holds the fluid in | Bear down and push out when the feeling hits, instead of stopping |
| Not aroused enough | The G-spot area hasn't swollen yet | Double the foreplay, or come once from clit play first |
| Wrong angle | You're pressing the back or side wall | Palm up, curl toward your belly button, or use a curved toy |
| Too little pressure | Light touch feels nice but doesn't build | Press firmer, add a hand on your lower belly, or try a steel wand |
| Too fast, too soon | Speed without pressure just numbs | Firm and steady first, speed last |
| Changing things as it builds | The build resets | Lock in the rhythm once it feels good |
| Nerves or pressure to perform | Tension tightens everything | Make it a no-goal session, go solo, or try the shower |
| Session too short | It often takes a long build | Give yourself a full unhurried session, or several |
| It just doesn't happen | Some women don't squirt | Enjoy everything else that feels good |
Practice alone first. It's far easier to let go when nobody's watching, and once you know the feeling, it's easier to show a partner. New to toys? Start with our best vibrators for beginners.
Some women never squirt, no matter what they try. That's not a failure. It has nothing to do with how much pleasure you can feel.
Safety and cleanup
These keep everything comfortable and clean.
- Empty your bladder first. The simplest step, and the one that makes letting go easiest.
- Nails short and smooth. For anyone whose fingers go inside.
- The right lube. Water-based works with condoms and any toy material. Keep silicone lube away from silicone toys, since it can damage them. Oil-based lube breaks down latex condoms and soft toy materials.
- Clean toys. Wash before and after in warm water with a mild soap, and give each toy time to dry fully. Only submerge toys whose listings say they're submersible.
- Never ass to vagina. Wash fingers and toys, or change the condom, before anything moves from anal play to the vagina or mouth.
- STIs still apply. Fingers, toys and genital contact can pass STIs like any sex. Use condoms on shared toys, gloves for fingering if you like, and get tested together.
- Stop if it hurts. Firm pressure should feel intense, not painful. If pain, bleeding or burning lingers, stop and see your doctor.
- Leaking at other times is different. If you leak when you cough, sneeze, laugh or exercise, that's not squirting. Talk to your doctor.
Cleanup: squirt is thin and watery, so wet towels and sheets usually just need a normal wash.
The best toys for squirting
Each pick does one job in the squirting toolkit: firm front-wall pressure, a come-hither motion, clit power, or both at once. For the full range, browse our G-spot vibrator collection.
| Pick | Best for | Price |
|---|---|---|
| Njoy Pure Wand | Steady, hands-on G-spot pressure | $142.95 |
| Lovense Osci 3 | A tapping motion plus clit vibration | $129.95 |
| 12x Come-Hither Rocker | A come-hither motion in a rabbit | $101.95 |
| Magic Wand Rechargeable | Clit power during G-spot play | $159.95 |
| We-Vibe Rave 2 | G-spot plus entrance, with an app | $139.95 |
| Le Wand Stainless Steel Arch | Hard, targeted steel pressure | $140.00 |
| Extreme-G Inflating Vibrator | Fullness and pressure | $81.95 |
| ROMP Reverb | Clit suction plus G-spot vibration | $66.95 |
| ROMP Hype | An entry-price G-spot vibrator | $29.95 |
1. Njoy Pure Wand: steady pressure, no cramped wrist
Squirting loves firm, steady pressure, and a curved steel wand delivers it. The Pure Wand's curve does the angling, so you can lie back and relax while it presses the spot. Rock it slowly against the front wall and let it build.
It's 316 grade stainless steel, waterproof and 1.5 inches in diameter. The metal may feel cool on first contact, then takes on your body's warmth. Heads up: the steel may contain some nickel, so skip it if that's an issue for you. $142.95.
2. Lovense Osci 3: the tapping finger
The Osci 3 doesn't just buzz your G-spot. Inside, its arm oscillates with a steady, thumping rhythm that's more like a beckoning finger than a surface buzz, while a second motor looks after your clit. That's the squirting formula, inside and out, without wearing out your fingers.
Its shaft heats up to body temperature in roughly 60 seconds, its flexible body bends to fit the angle you like, and a partner can take the controls through the Lovense Remote app. It's IPX7 waterproof and runs up to about 170 minutes on a charge. One tip: the oscillation is stronger than most people expect, so begin at the lowest setting. $129.95.
3. 12x Come-Hither Rocker: the motion, built in
The come-hither stroke is the heart of squirting technique, and this rabbit does it for you. Its curved shaft makes a beckoning come-hither motion aimed at your G-spot, with 3 come-hither speeds, while the ears straddle both sides of your clitoral hood with 3 speeds and 6 patterns of vibration.
The ergonomic handle is easy to hold at the right angle. 4 inches insertable, silicone and ABS plastic, USB rechargeable, IPX5 splash-proof: fine to rinse, but don't submerge it. $101.95.
Get the 12x Come-Hither Rocker here.
4. Magic Wand Rechargeable: the clit half of the equation
Almost every squirting technique pairs the front wall with the clit, and a full-size wand handles the clit half. This cordless full-size Magic Wand brings deep, rumbly power, 4 intensity levels and 4 patterns. Rest it on the clit while fingers or a G-spot toy work inside.
It's approximately 13 inches long, with a silicone head and buttons and an ABS plastic body. $159.95.
Get the Magic Wand Rechargeable here.
5. We-Vibe Rave 2: a twist that sweeps the spot
Its asymmetric, slightly twisted shape means even a tiny roll of your wrist sends pressure sweeping over your G-spot, while a second motor stimulates the sensitive entrance. Small twists keep pressure on the front wall without big thrusts, which is just what squirting wants.
The adjustable hinge locks in your angle, and the We-Vibe app lets a partner run it, whether they're in the room or miles away. IPX7 waterproof, about 2 hours per charge, silicone. $139.95. Prefer squishy and rumbly? Try the Dame Arc, $119.95.
6. Le Wand Stainless Steel Arch: hard, targeted steel
The Arch is a crescent-shaped, double-ended wand curved specifically for G-spot play, in solid stainless steel that's hard and weighty. Ease it in, hold it against the front wall and let the steel do the work.
One end is rippled and bulbous for a textured massage; the other is a flattened tip for precise, targeted pressure. It works with any lubricant. 1.44 inches in diameter. $140.00.
7. Extreme-G Inflating Vibrator: pressure that grows
The Extreme-G goes in slim, then two inflatable bulbs swell once it's inside, pressing right where it counts and massaging the spot with every movement. Inflated, its width goes from 1.6 to 2 inches.
Vibration comes on top, with 3 speeds and 7 patterns. The insertable length is 5.5 inches, and it's silicone. IPX5 splash-proof, so the shower is fine but not the bath. Water-based lube only. $81.95.
Get the Extreme-G Inflating Vibrator here.
8. ROMP Reverb: suction outside, vibration inside
The Reverb does both halves of the recipe at once. Pleasure Air pulses work your clit while the insertable arm sends vibration toward the G-spot. You just relax and let it build.
3 vibration intensities and 7 patterns, plus 10 air intensity settings. Silicone with ABS, USB rechargeable, and IPX7 waterproof, so bath time and shower play are both covered. $66.95.
9. ROMP Hype: the entry-price G-spot vibe
Want to learn what your G-spot likes before spending more? Start here. Its curved tip is coated in two layers of velvety silicone, firm enough to give the spot real pressure and soft enough to be kind while you're still learning to aim. Angle the tip toward your belly button and rock it slowly in a come-hither motion before you go to top speed.
Six intensities and four patterns, IPX7 waterproof, about 5 inches insertable. $29.95. Want G-spot and clit in one toy? The AdultLuxe Celestia has two motors and a warming feature, $19.95.
More two-armed toys are in our best rabbit vibrators guide, and suction toys to pair with fingers inside are in the best rose toys and clit suckers.
Squirting FAQ
Is squirt pee?
Mostly it comes from the bladder, but it isn't the same as peeing. Ultrasound scans (Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2015) showed the bladder filling before squirting and empty afterward, and a 2022 blue dye study (International Journal of Urology) found bladder dye in the squirt of all 5 women tested. The fluid is diluted, usually clear and nearly odorless, and often contains a little Skene's gland fluid. It's a normal sexual response.
Can all women squirt?
No, not all women squirt, and that's normal. In a 2024 Journal of Sex Research survey of more than 3,000 US women, about 40% said they had squirted at least once. Many can learn with the right setup and technique, but some never do, and that says nothing about how much pleasure they can feel.
Is squirting an orgasm?
Not necessarily. Squirting and orgasm are separate things that can happen together, one after the other, or on their own. Some women squirt at the peak of an orgasm, some before or after coming, and some without coming at all. Neither is a more "real" response than the other.
Can men squirt?
There's almost no research on it. "Male squirting" is something some men report: a clear, watery release they describe as different from semen, usually after they come if stimulation of the head of the cock keeps going. It hasn't been properly studied, so nobody can say for sure what the fluid is or how common it is.
Why can't I squirt?
The usual culprits are clenching when you feel like you need to pee, not enough arousal, pressure that's too light or too fast, the wrong angle, and too short a session. Pee first, warm up longer, press firmly with a come-hither motion, and bear down instead of holding in. Some women simply don't squirt, and that's completely normal.
Is squirting real?
Yes, squirting is real. Researchers have tracked it with ultrasound scans of the bladder (Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2015) and traced it with blue dye (International Journal of Urology, 2022). In a 2024 Journal of Sex Research survey of more than 3,000 US women, about 40% said they had done it at least once.
Why do women squirt?
Nobody knows exactly why. Strong arousal and stimulation, especially firm pressure on the front wall of the vagina near the urethra, can release fluid from the bladder along with a little Skene's gland fluid. No biological purpose has been established.
How much fluid is normal?
There's no normal amount. Squirting can be a few spurts, a wet patch or enough to soak through several towels, and it often varies from session to session for the same woman. More is not better, and a small squirt counts just as much as a big one. Put towels down and don't measure.
Does squirting smell?
Usually not much. Squirt is typically clear and nearly odorless. If your vagina ever has a strong or unusual smell, whether or not you've been squirting, talk to your doctor.
Can you squirt during sex?
Yes, though it's usually easier with fingers or toys than with penetration alone. Choose positions that angle a cock, strap-on or dildo toward the front wall, like her on top leaning back, doggy style, or legs up with a pillow under her hips, and add a hand or wand on her clit. Fingers first, then sex, works well too.
Is squirting healthy?
Squirting is a normal, harmless sexual response. It isn't a sign that anything is wrong, and it isn't something you need to do. If you leak when you cough, sneeze or laugh, or if squirting comes with pain or burning, that's different and worth talking to your doctor about. Otherwise, enjoy it if it happens.
How long does it take to learn to squirt?
There's no set timeline. Some women squirt the first time the front wall gets the right pressure, others take many sessions, and some never do. Practicing solo, giving yourself long unhurried sessions, and focusing on pleasure instead of results all help.
The bottom line on squirting
Squirting is real, common, and mostly fluid from the bladder with a little Skene's gland fluid mixed in. It's not peeing, it's not female ejaculation, and it's not a test. The recipe: pee first, towels down, get very aroused, give the front wall firm, steady come-hither pressure while the clit gets attention, and bear down instead of clenching when the "I have to pee" feeling hits. If it happens, enjoy the flood. If it doesn't, you still had a great night.
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