Pocket Pussies & Male Strokers

What is a pocket pussy?

A pocket pussy is a male masturbator made to feel like a vagina: a soft, stretchy sleeve with a lifelike opening that you slide over your penis and stroke. Some are molded as a mouth or a butt instead, and many sit in a hard case. Pocket pussies are one kind of stroker, a family that also includes abstract and motorized sleeves. Don't confuse them with penis sleeves, which you wear during sex.

Types of pocket pussies and strokers

Realistic pocket pussies

Lifelike openings in soft, skin-like materials. The Main Squeeze Sasha Grey is molded from the star herself in ULTRASKYN, with a twist end cap that dials the suction. The PDX Plus Perfect Ass has two holes, each with its own texture.

Tenga eggs and strokers

Tenga skips anatomy for abstract designs. The Tenga Egg hides a super-stretchy, textured sleeve in a plastic egg (officially single-use), and the Flip Zero packs four textured zones into a case that flips open for cleaning.

Vibrating strokers

A motor makes the sleeve buzz as you stroke. The Satisfyer Men Vibration aims two motors at the sensitive head, with 14 vibration programs. The Tenga Flip Zero White Vibrating hides two vibrating cores inside its sleeve.

Automatic strokers

Automatic strokers do the moving for you: they stroke, thrust, rotate or suck. The CRUIZR moves up and down, vibrates and warms, on a hands-free suction-cup holder. In the Playboy Pursuit of Pleasure, beaded rings travel up and down your shaft behind a clear window.

Blowjob machines

Blowjob machines are built to feel like oral sex: most suck, and many vibrate too. Our own AdultLuxe SuckStation squeezes in waves around the sleeve, with 8 vibration modes, and the Vedo Hummer 2.0 runs 8 automatic suction modes from a remote.

App and interactive strokers

The Handy runs up to 600 strokes a minute, up to 4.3 inches long, and syncs to interactive and VR video. The Lovense Max 2 contracts around you, and a partner can run it via the Lovense app from miles away.

Air-pulse strokers

The Arcwave Ion 2 aims pulsing air at your frenulum, the sensitive spot just under the head, inside a soft silicone sleeve. It has 10 intensity settings and switches on by itself when it senses skin.

How to choose a pocket pussy

• Realistic or abstract. Lifelike looks and feel, or Tenga-style designs built purely for sensation.
• Texture and tightness. Ridges, nubs and orbs each feel different. Squeezable cases and dials, like the Arcwave Voy's 8-setting dial, adjust the grip.
• Manual, vibrating or automatic. Manual sleeves never need charging; vibrating ones buzz; automatic ones move for you and usually cost more.
• Material. TPE and skin-like materials, such as ULTRASKYN and CyberSkin, are porous: use water-based lube and dry them fully. Arcwave's silicone sleeves are non-porous. Latex allergy? Check the listing.
• Open or closed. Open-ended sleeves, like the Gender X Barrel of Fun, rinse through and dry faster; closed ones hold more suction.
• Size and discretion. Tenga Eggs and the palm-sized Arcwave Voy tuck into a bag. Want quiet? Go manual or pick a low-noise motor.
• Budget. A Tenga Egg costs least but is officially single-use; reusable sleeves cost more and last with care.

How to use a pocket pussy

1. Wash it first, and charge it if it's rechargeable.
2. Get turned on; most sleeves feel best once you're hard.
3. Lube the inside of the sleeve and yourself with water-based lube.
4. Ease in slowly, with gentle strokes or the lowest setting.
5. Vary grip, speed and depth; squeezable cases tighten the hold.
6. Closed sleeve with a valve or end cap, like the Sasha Grey's? Close it for more suction.
7. Wash it right after.

Cleaning, care and safety

• Wash it after every use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner like JO Refresh. Only turn a sleeve inside out if its listing says to, like the Jock 9x's.
• Keep motors dry unless the listing says submersible or IPX7. Never soak or submerge a splash-proof one, like the CRUIZR.
• Dry it completely before storing it; a damp sleeve can grow bacteria.
• Store soft sleeves apart from other toys, as the Sasha Grey's listing advises.
• No oil-based lube on TPE or skin-like materials, and use a condom if you share.
• Stop if it hurts or chafes, and replace a sleeve once it tears.

Pocket pussy FAQ

What is a stroker?

A stroker is a sleeve you slide over your penis and move up and down, by hand or by motor. Pocket pussies are strokers made to feel like a vagina; others mimic a mouth or butt, or go abstract, like Tenga's.

What does a pocket pussy feel like?

Like a soft, slick, snug grip all around you, with texture your hand can't make: ridges, nubs or orbs you feel on every stroke. Closed sleeves add a pull of suction, and ULTRASKYN warms to the touch.

Do you need lube with a pocket pussy?

Yes, almost always: a dry sleeve drags and can chafe. Use water-based lube, which is safe with every material; many listings here say water-based only. The self-lubricating Blush Soft & Wet turns slick with a splash of water for up to 12 uses.

How do you clean and dry a pocket pussy?

Rinse it right after use, then wash it with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner. To dry it, open the case or stand it on end so air gets inside, and let it dry completely before capping it. The Spinner Tetra has a built-in drying stand.

How much is a pocket pussy?

Ours start under $10 for a single Tenga Egg and top $1,000 for a hands-free machine that strokes and sucks. Simple manual sleeves sit at the low end; size, motors, suction and app control push the price up.

Are pocket pussies worth it?

If you masturbate often, they're an easy upgrade: texture, suction and adjustable grip do what your hand can't, and a reusable sleeve lasts with care. Not sure yet? A single Tenga Egg is the cheapest way to find out.

Where can I buy a pocket pussy discreetly?

Right here. Every order ships in a plain box with no branding, free on orders of $75 and up. We ship to US addresses only, from several US warehouses, so multi-item orders can arrive in separate packages.

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