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Hey readers! Welcome back to our exploration of Dormaphilia, the fantasy centred around sleep intimacy. In the previous blog, we talked about the definition of Dormaphilia, the importance of consent, and the challenges one might encounter while navigating it.
After researching more on it, we've learnt that there is a study by Deehan and Bartels in 2021 that threw a new light on Dormaphilia: both men and women seem equally into it.
Also, it's not just about sleep – it often ties in with a desire for sexual submission and even masochistic fantasies as such. Turns out, when you like the idea of groping or being groped or are intrigued by the concept of CNC while you are fast asleep, you know Dormaphilia is something you have a thing for. Now, let's take it a step further and introduce some sex toys that will make your Dormaphilic experience intense and exciting!
Vibepad 2
Meet the VibePad 2, a super-soft toy designed to make your partner feel like they are being licked while they are peacefully asleep. A perfect tease for a Dormaphilia fantasy. With their permission beforehand of course, you can gently place the VibePad 2 around their groin area. The device has two waves (you'll know when you'll look); one of them being the big wave which has a tongue-like part that offers gentle "licking" sensations. Then we have a smaller wave that can warm up to a cozy 131°F which is going to keep your lover quite enticed.
With that, you can also use the remote control from up to 32.8 feet away to change the settings. Now that opens up the room for element of surprise when you're using Vibepad 2.
Lovense Ferri Panty Vibe
We want you to picture this: there is a tiny and powerful magnetic panty vibrator that can be controlled from anywhere in the world. By anywhere, we mean it in its literal sense. That is what the Lovense Ferri Panty Vibe is known for! This one is super easy to stay in place especially when your partner is not sleeping on the side (we have grinding toys if they are sleeping on the side though).
All you have to do is, slip the panty vibe right through their boxers/panties (if they are wearing any ;)). This is one of our favourites for Dormaphilia fantasy since it is perfect for teasing or giving them mind-blowing orgasms.
CalExotics Dual Rider: Bump & Grind
The design of a grinding toy of course gives an easy access of your private parts which is why they are the perfect fits for a Dormaphilic/Sleep play. Now, CalExotics remote controlled bump and grind toy is quite a budgeted toy which is going to open your window of hearing them moan like their soul is being sucked from them. If you believe us, we think it's a must have toy for your sock drawer. :P
Inmi Wave Slider with Remote
Now, if your partner enjoys humping, all you have to do is manage to place the Inmi Wave Slider in between their thighs and maybe canoodle them to turn them on. Now, this vibrating silicone pad actually operates with 4 speeds and 7 patterns which is going to give your lover a hands-free orgasm to remember!
Your partner can feel the rows of ribs and the raised mound on the circular cone stimulating their vulva and backdoor.
Is it normal to have Fantasies around Dormaphilia?
Absolutely, exploring unique fantasies like Dormaphilia is a normal part of human sexuality for many people. It's important to remember that our fantasies often serve as a playground for our minds, a space where we can safely explore desires and curiosities that may not align with our everyday lives.
We have mentioned this before but again, the key is to approach these explorations with an open mind and a sense of self-awareness. As long as your fantasy play is consensual and safe, indulging in such imaginings can be a healthy and normal aspect of your sexual identity. It's all about understanding and respecting your boundaries and those of any involved partners.
Now, as we conclude this blog, tell us if you'd like to read more on Dormaphilia. <3 See you around, Reader.