Tips on How to Find your First Sex Toy [Vulva Owners]

Hey there, vulva owners! If you're considering purchasing your first sex toy, you might be feeling a bit overwhelmed by the number of options out there. Don't worry, though – we're here to help you find the perfect toy for your needs.

Step 1: Know Your Body

Before you start looking for a sex toy, it's important to know your own body. Spend some time exploring yourself with your hands or a mirror. This will help you understand what kind of stimulation you like and where your erogenous zones are located. Knowing your body will also help you pick a toy that's the right size and shape for you.

Step 2: Decide on the Type of Toy You Want

Sex toys come in many different shapes, sizes, and types. Here are a few common options:

• Vibrators: These toys provide vibration to stimulate the clitoris, vulva, or other erogenous zones. Frequencies, speeds, and level of intensity can vary between toys, so many sure you know what king of intensity you like and do your research on the toys available.
• Dildos: These toys are designed for penetration and can be used to stimulate the G-spot or other areas. With dildos, it is important to know your size limits-- both girth and length. Once you figure that out, it'll be easy to find one that matches your needs!
• Anal toys: These toys are designed for anal stimulation and come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Anal toys can be a lot of fun when used correctly. As a beginner, you can try anal beads or plugs that can be worked up in size. Once you've become quite the expert, dildos and prostate massagers can be used!
• Kegel balls: These toys are designed to help strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and are such a spicy way to foreplay. Wear them at dinner or during the way to work up your libido for your partner or yourself 😉

Think about what kind of sensation you're looking for and what type of toy might provide that sensation. If you're not sure, start with a classic vibrator – they're versatile and can be used in many different ways. Our Rose Collection is entirely beginner friendly!

Step 3: Consider the Size and Material

Sex toys come in many different sizes and materials. Some people prefer smaller toys, while others like larger ones. Consider what size will be comfortable for you and what material you prefer. Silicone and glass are popular choices because they're easy to clean and hypoallergenic -- they're also the safest to use, along with stainless steel. Avoid TPE's and jelly's as much as possible, and regardless of what choose, do your thorough research on materials, acceptable lubes for them, and appropriate cleaning steps. If you need help, make sure to check out this blog or our own Tips on Cleaning Sex Toys!

Step 4: Read Reviews

Once you've narrowed down your options, read reviews from other people who have used the toys you're considering. Look for reviews that talk about the toy's power, noise level, and ease of use. Reviews can help you avoid toys that are uncomfortable or not worth the investment.

Step 5: Buy from a Reputable Source

Finally, make sure you're buying your toy from a reputable source. There are many counterfeit sex toys on the market, and these can be dangerous to use. Stick to well-known retailers that sell quality products. 

Picking your first sex toy can be a bit daunting, but with these steps, you'll be well on your way to finding the perfect toy for your needs. Remember to take your time, experiment, and above all, have fun! And you can always message us for suggestions💗